Don't unset the surface->buffer if the associated wl_buffer object is
destroyed. The MetaWaylandBuffer doesn't really only represent a
wl_buffer object, but also the data (texture) created from the given
wl_buffer. Thus, for example destroying a released SHM wl_buffer should
not destroy the MetaWaylandBuffer instance, because the texture may
still be used.
This commit also fixes a race where calc_showing would hide a window
because, at the time of calculation whether it should be showing, the
surface's buffer had been destroyed as described above.
https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=762716